Wedding Etiquette; For The Guests

  1. Priscilla Blythe says:

    I Have a question; if someone is having a child free wedding and one person brings a child. Is it ever okay for a guest to complain about it when the bride and groom do not want to address it and even ask the guest to stop, but they do not. The guest in question had a child they would have liked to bring and felt slighted. I’m curious; I feel that etiquette would fall on the hosts to deal with any issues regardless of how a guest feels and that as a guest it’s not your concern, but do the hosts have an obligation to their guests in this situation?

    • Shelby Colonese says:

      Hey there Priscilla, this is a tough situation! The bride and groom may have had a child free wedding but allowed that one child for many reasons. The child may be part of the family and they wanted them in the family photos, they were part of the bridal party, or simply they are very close with that specific child and simply wanted them there! It may have also been a situation where the parents of that child did not listen to the no child rule and the bride and groom did not feel like fighting that day with the parents and wanted to just focus on their wedding. Either way, I feel that the bride and groom are not at fault here as it is their wedding day, they can invite whomever they want to be there. I feel that if these parents brought the child against the bride and groom’s wishes, then the bride and groom have absolutely done nothing wrong and that’s on the parents! We have to remember that even adults who want to be included in the invites to weddings are not always invited. We should never be hurt by what someone else wants for their wedding day, it is their day after all!

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